From Brianna Chickenfry to SOF Spouses: Rewriting the Narrative Together

If you’ve tuned into Brianna Chickenfry’s podcast episodes about her relationship with Zach Bryan, you’ve probably felt a pang of familiarity. Her candid storytelling—raw, real, and unapologetic—reminds us that love in the spotlight (or in the shadows) isn’t always easy. For Special Operations Forces (SOF) spouses, her experiences hit particularly close to home. The parallels are undeniable, but the path we walk often feels lonelier, and the stakes are much higher.

Brianna’s tales of trying to balance a partner’s grueling schedule with her own identity mirror what many SOF spouses experience daily. While her stories involve the challenges of fame, ours involve the challenges of service—deployments, secrecy, and the weight of carrying it all while the world only sees the heroism of our partner. Like Brianna, we grapple with the question: *Where do I fit in this narrative?*

But here’s the truth: SOF spouses are more than background players in someone else’s story. We are the foundation, the steady heartbeat keeping the rhythm of family life while our partners serve. Yet, too often, the focus remains on healing the service member, leaving the family—especially the spouse—to fend for themselves in silence.

It’s time to rewrite this narrative.

Why Brianna Chickenfry’s Story Resonates

When Brianna talks about the emotional toll of her relationship, it’s easy to see why it resonates. She speaks openly about miscommunication, feeling like an afterthought, and trying to protect her sense of self while supporting someone else. SOF spouses live these moments daily—only our struggles come with added layers of isolation, societal expectations, and the ever-present uncertainty of military life.

Much like Brianna, SOF spouses are often forced to ask themselves, *How much can I give before I lose myself completely?* And while her story opens the door to an honest conversation about relationships, SOF spouses need more than relatability. We need tools, resources, and support systems that acknowledge our unique challenges and strengthen the entire family unit.

Starting a Movement: Healing the Whole Family

At Lotus River Wellness (LRW), we believe that focusing only on the service member is like treating a single leaf on a tree while ignoring its roots. True healing comes from addressing the family as a whole. When SOF spouses are empowered to thrive—personally, professionally, and emotionally—the entire family grows stronger.

Our mission is simple: to equip you with the tools to build a fulfilling life while supporting your partner in theirs. Whether through yoga teacher training, digital courses, or community workshops, LRW is here to help you balance the demands of SOF life without losing yourself. We’re not just offering resources; we’re building a movement.

This movement is about saying *no* to being sidelined and *yes* to being seen, heard, and supported. It’s about rewriting the narrative that SOF spouses are just “there to hold down the fort.” We’re partners, leaders, and essential contributors to our families’ success.

Join Us in Rewriting the Narrative

Just as Brianna Chickenfry is sparking conversations about the realities of relationships in the public eye, SOF spouses have the power to start conversations about what it really means to be the backbone of a Special Operations family. And just as she’s rewriting her own story, you can rewrite yours too.

At Lotus River Wellness, we’re here to walk with you every step of the way. Together, we can heal not just the service member but the entire family. Because when you’re empowered, your family thrives—and that’s a movement worth joining.

Let’s rewrite the narrative together. Dig deep into our website to learn more about how we can support you and your family on this journey.

Let’s heal, grow, and thrive—together.